(2Co 13:10) “Therefore I write these things being absent, lest being present I should use sharpness, according to the power which the Lord hath given me to edification, and not to destruction.” No one who loves another wishes to harm them in any way. I’ve always said the Lord did not put me into the ministry to hurt others; but to help them. Yet, there are times the only means of helping is painful. Love does what must be done.