(2Co 10:12) “For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.” The judging of ourselves by what others do, is a false standard. Firstly, because we are blinded to self. The fallen nature of pride makes us think of ourselves more highly then we ought to think. Secondly, we cannot see as God see the heart of another person. So, our perception of them is flawed at best.