(1Co 7:1) “Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. (2) Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.” The Lord made us. He knows this is one of the basic impulses of being human. It is not wrong to bring another into union of ourselves and the Lord (marriage), as long as that person is saved (1 Cor 7:39d “…. only in the Lord.”